The truths of the 'happy ending' massage (2024)

Massage parlours offering sexual services are not hard to find.

There are online adult forums, where clients leave comments and write reviews of their experiences.

There are community websites and forums, where some massage businesses openly post ads seeking "ladies" and gay men who can massage and provide so-called "extra" services.

Joy is a Thai masseuse in her 30s who has worked at several massage parlours in Sydney for about a year, but her name and voice have been changed to protect her identity.

She is in Australia on a student visa, studying English and accounting, and works at parlours that masquerade as straightforward massage parlours.

JOY:

(Thai, then translated:) "When I was in Thailand, I never thought I would end up offering dodgy massage. When I first started working as a masseuse, I was actually surprised to know that this kind of service existed. But after so many clients asked me, I thought to myself, 'Okay, I'll do it,' because I get a lot of money and it is less tiring than normal massage."

The business owner usually pays Joy the equivalent of half the fee for a standard massage.

The fees for the extra services, such as nude massage, masturbation, oral sex or intercourse, range from $20 to $150, and Joy can keep the full amount.

She says, on average, she can earn around $1,500 to $1,700 a week in cash.

And she says the business owners benefit from the extra bookings brought in by masseuses who offer sexual services so they often ignore such transactions on their premises.

Dr Helen Pringle, a senior lecturer in social sciences at the University of New South Wales, has a particular academic interest in human trafficking and sexual slavery.

She says the massage business often involves a grey area.

PRINGLE:

"There'll be legitimate massage, or ordinary massage, that is offered, but, also, there is a possibility of 'happy ending.' Often, the employers will hire people to do massage but say, 'Look, you know, if you want a little bit of extra money, you can do happy ending.' It's kind of not usually penetrative sex, in the usual sense of prostitution. So this is kind of a grey area that a lot of massage parlours operate in, between normal, ordinary massage and brothels. A lot of workers in that grey area feel pressured to provide extra services in that way."

A massage business owner from Melbourne, Ann explains there are three main types of massage parlours in Australia.

ANN:

(Thai, then translated:) "The first type is 'out-in-the-open' massage shops, whose owners tell their clients about available sexual services and advertise new staff. The second type is 'one-eye-closed' massage shops, whose owners pretend these sexual services are not available, yet allow their staff to offer them. The final type is 'hidden' massage shops, whose owners declare that there are no sexual services available yet individual staff might offer them secretly."

It is not illegal to sell sex in most of Australia, but prostitution laws differ from state to state, enforced by a state authority, local councils or the police.

Unlicensed brothels are difficult to monitor when it comes to sexual-health practices or workplace health and safety.

Joy says the places she has worked have never required or encouraged her to get checked for sexually transmitted infections.

JOY:

(Thai, then translated:) "It's up to me to get checked or not. When I first came here, a friend told me to get checked. So I get checked every six months."

She is adamant she is not a victim of human trafficking or sexual slavery, though, and says she does not know of any others who might be.

JOY :

(Thai, then translated:) "I never heard of it. All of my friends who do this type of job are willing to do it at their own free will, because they can earn a lot more money than other typical jobs."

But Dr Pringle has a different view.

PRINGLE:

"They (workers) define trafficking in a very narrow way, as being kidnapped and/or being chained to beds, or being held virtually hostage. But both the international trafficking protocol and, also, Australian law on trafficking, you don't have to be forced in order to fall into the category of trafficking. So the provisions in Australia at the Commonwealth level talk about whether the employer is reckless, whether the employee will be exploited. So I would say that the key problem is exploitation, rather than the movement across borders or that kind of movement in trafficking."

Dr Pringle wants Australia to adopt the Nordic model of prostitution policy.

Under it, sex work is decriminalised but buying sex is a criminal offence, so the law penalises the customer, not the sex worker.

In the short term, she suggests a special police unit like Sweden's, where women can bring their complaints, problems and questions in confidence.

The truths of the 'happy ending' massage (2024)

FAQs

What happens in Chinese massage parlors? ›

At an Asian massage parlor, you can expect a variety of massage techniques such as Thai, Shiatsu, or reflexology. The ambiance is typically serene with dim lighting and soothing music. Professional therapists administer the massages, focusing on pressure points to relieve tension and promote relaxation.

What to expect from a Chinese full body massage? ›

Tui Na: A vigorous form of massage focusing on kneading, hitting, and stretching to ease blockages in the muscular system. Chinese Cupping: Uses suction with cups on the skin to encourage blood flow, relieve muscle tension, and promote healing.

Do massage parlors use condoms? ›

Almost all massage parlor FSWs had never used a condom for oral sex. Inconsistent condom use for vagin*l sex with customers was more prevalent among bar/club FSWs (85%) than massage parlor (72%) and street FSWs (68%).

Do you wear clothes for Chinese massage? ›

Depending on the length of your massage the therapist may request you remove your clothes (if you are having a short 20-minute session focusing on the neck and shoulders, this will not be necessary). For an Oriental massage, it is beneficial to remove clothes down to your underwear.

Do you wear anything for a full body massage? ›

Dress down to your comfort level.

Rest assured that your massage therapist will keep your body covered up the entire time. If they're not working on a particular area, it will stay covered up underneath a blanket or sheet. If you don't want to take any of your clothes off, let your massage therapist know.

What does a table shower mean? ›

A table shower is a form of hydrotherapy where the person lies on a waterproof table, and water is typically poured over them. It's often part of a spa treatment to cleanse the body before a massage.

How to know if a massage parlor is a sting? ›

The Indicators
  1. Any sexual or erotic services are provided, or they advertise on illicit websites.
  2. The providers are wearing very little clothing.
  3. They refuse to service females.
  4. You have to buzz in to get into the business.
  5. The providers are not allowed to handle their own cash.
  6. The providers speak very little to no English.

What happens at the end of a massage? ›

Right after a massage, your body will usually initiate a process of recovery and rejuvenation - you may notice a profound relaxation throughout your body, characterized by a decrease in muscle tension and an overwhelming sense of calm.

What happens in Vietnam massage? ›

During an acupressure body massage in Vietnam, skilled therapists use their fingers, palms, knuckles, and elbows to apply pressure to these acupoints. The goal is to alleviate pain, reduce tension, improve blood circulation, and support the treatment of various ailments.

What is a table shower in massage? ›

Sometimes we don't need fancy words—even for fancy things. A table shower is a special type of self-draining table fitted with shower heads for use in massage, including erotic ones.

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